DEVELOP YOUR PERSONALITY to enhance and develop your personality. because whatever the technical knowledge you have learned through education, it has an important role in shaping your career. but the other important thing, how is your personality? how much powerful and confident do you look? what is your image in the sight of different people? so it is important that as a person you develop yourself in a very good manner .your personality must e powerful and strong.so I am going to share with you the six topics related to that. if you try to follow and integrate so there can be a great change in your life.
DEVELOP YOUR PERSONALITY- IN SIX-STEP
1. YOUR DRESSING SENSE
if you have many people in front of you so you may observe that make an image of them by just looking at them what person would be like what, suppose if some person is coming to meet you, so what do you look at first. Firstly you see their appearance that how he or she is looking? if he did not give much attention to his dressing sense or not looking properly dressed up or not looking neat and tidy. so there becomes a weak representation of that person in your mind .that maybe this person is not so much successful or confident or doesn't do care for himself much.
so the image of that person is created on the lower side of your mind, the same happens with you also. so whenever you are going to present yourself so be careful, that how exactly you are dressed up. ? that will enhance your personality very much. if you are in the field of speaking or sales so three colors are very important for you black, grey, and white we call black and grey the colors of power. in the same way red also is a power color .it is not that you wear a red color dress if you are a male bit if you are female then it can work .so there is one more color, blue which give you the trustworthy experience .that means when people see you wearing a blue tie or blue suit so the image is reflected off your in other people's mind that is of a trustworthy person. so these are some things you can be cared for and it is not like that you may have the expensive and costly dressed .but how you dressed up and keep yourself neat and tidy.
2. LANGUAGE
never use loose language, cheap or lose language should never be used because if your language is filled with this kind of words, so your personality is going to be projected as it is in the mind of another person in front of you that may be your character is not so good. you would not like so, let me tell you one more thing. whatever you are speaking as your language it is coming out of your mouth later but is being created in your mind before.so if you use cheap language so it means that your mind is filled with so many cheap words.
start recording it, try to speak good words and good communication. where will you get good language? when you will listen to good people, you can read good books, and listen to good speakers, your language will be started upgrading from there. so start using that kind of language. whatever it is, in a friend circle there is a little different communication and that is okay .but you have to be careful that what kind of language you is, it is projecting your personality. so you are needed to be careful with your language.
3. WHAT YOU READ
understand this, all those who have achieved success in their life, they are the ones who have read good things, they do not put any useless information in their mind .they read the good thing, they read good books. you may have heard the saying "good readers are good leaders "which means those who are good readers they become good leaders in life. if you want to lead your life or want to be on the top level in your profession so read good books. they are many goods books available start reading them.
there are lots of books which you can read, napoleon hill whose famous books are THINK AND GROW RICH and LAW OF SUCCESS, he said " your life is the average of those 5 people in whom association you are living ". that means the people with whom are having a thought exchange and intersection on a mental level. your life going to be like them 10 to 20 percent more or less. your finches going to be like their finance. we can read their books, so many readers have been successful in their life by reading such books.so start reading good books.
4. DISCUSSION
so understand when you discuss something with someone so it is important to know in which direction your discussion is going. if you are kind of discussing or criticizing, you are going to waste the tremendous energy you have which you shouldn't waste. when there is a debate so I would recommend you not to be a part of that. because the one who is fighting only wants a fight. he does not concern with what will be the end result of it. or I just reach to what is true and right, he is just enjoying fighting. and you have heard a saying "if you fight with a pig you both get dirty but the pig loves it ".that means if you fight with a pig so the pig enjoys in it, do you also enjoy in it? no
so the next if you see a discussion is going in a negative direction, the only irrelevant discussion is going to be happening there, so keep away yourself from this type of discussion .you need to discuss ideas, good thoughts, and your growth. so start discussing with people who moving toward growth in their life.
5. JOKES
we all share jokes on what's an app, Facebook, and through messages to enjoy and entertain ourselves, when we talk to each other but I would like to recommend you one thing that stops sharing, telling, and discussing the cheap jokes from this day onward. because the kind of jokes you can crack tell about your personality and which kind of person you are. if you tell this kind of joke so the same kind of image is projected in the mind of other people.
that you are a cheap kind of person and you wouldn't like this. so be careful about your communication. that hope should I communicate and what kind of personality should I have. the kind of discussion you make with people so the same gets projected in their mind.
6. PROFESSION
if you are in any profession, you may have your business or job or you may be self-employed. whatever you are doing, you must learn to understand one thing "work more than paid for ".that means any amount you get in exchange for any service. always give your service at the higher end. make more effort than the amount you are getting through salary or in another way. this is the formula of growth this is the secret of growth. those who only match their salary they never grow they remain average .those who get less go to downfall. but those who make more effort than that means you got some amount but effort-wise you paid more, so you are going on the track of growth and itis going to enhance and develop your personality very much.
so you have to integrate these six points into your life. only you can make yourself great. you have the unlimited possibility to grow and make yourself successful at this time.
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